Installing PS5 (184.108.40.206) can cause some problems when using Oracle XE as the infrastucture database. The solution is described in this SOA Suite / BPM blog by Niall Commiskey.
More tips on upgrading OFM 11g to patch set 5
More considerations on upgrading to OFM 220.127.116.11.0
There is an additional article on upgrading to OFM 18.104.22.168 on the Whitehorses blog. It goes into more detail on JDK 7 support, OWSM in SOA Suite, the combination of OSB en OWSM and for example the PSA (Patch Set Assistant) performance.
Java memory arguments in OFM 22.214.171.124.0
More on setting Java memory arguments in SOA Suite 126.96.36.199.0.